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On being judgmental




Mother Teresa had told, "If you judge people, you don't have time to love them."

Now here I've hinted the resentful incidents that happened so far, not a single day passes by without regretting them. I had been judgmental on my will. Took others thoughts for granted and presumed a whole lot of things which turned out to be unfavourable and highly embarrassing in the end. Unless you live that moment to the tiniest detail at the particular place, in that exact situation, you CANNOT or NOT SUPPOSED to pass comment on the other person, be that right or wrong. This is something which I have learnt in the recent times. Because words once spoken can't be taken back, even though you brood and feel guilty over it.

And you may call a few people, hypocrites when they don't reveal what there is on their mind, yes they might be pretenders but its in our minds to be less faultfinding. We should make a better sense out of all that. When it personally involves you, it might turn out to be fatal.

"Should've, could've, would've, its always easy in the past tense." So I made a note to myself, "Never let a word out of your mouth without forethought." And don't be a judge of others no matter who you are to them.

All I can say is I was Judge"mental".

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  1. balajihandsWednesday, 27 July 2011 at 11:16:00 GMT+5:30

    Its easy to read..hard to follow :)

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  2. Ramya SWednesday, 27 July 2011 at 13:23:00 GMT+5:30

    You might understant if you know me in person!

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  3. Ramya SWednesday, 27 July 2011 at 13:23:00 GMT+5:30

    understand*

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  4. SudhaThursday, 1 September 2011 at 22:59:00 GMT+5:30

    U are being too hard on urself Rams!! It is natural for mun kobam and prejudices to creep up..IT is all a part of being human!

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